[ DAB ] Shattered

Published: Tue, 09/13/22

Good morning!

Barb Ling of the DennisAndBarb partnership here and we hope the day is treating you well. 

And... I'd like to, well, share what happened yesterday; if my experiences can help even just 1 person, they're worth it!

Yesterday afternoon/evening was one of those events that knocks your world sideways.  

The day started well, I will admit.  There I was, sitting at the new shiny workstation the husband built - had me coffee, diet pepsi, and various/sundry goodies.  Helped out one newbie, and then another one proactively asked me for answers, and I quote:

 

"I just want know how to connect with affiliates
 
Just tell me few words, then will not disturb you."


Mind you, that was *after* I did my usual questioning:

* What does your sales page look like?

* Where did you get your testimonials?

etc.etc.

It was obvious to me that contacting any affiliate would be a disaster in the making, as the sales page had more mistakes than my moose  trying to learn the command "Don't eat my laptop!"

I kinda sorta want to rescue people when they truly do try... but their 3rd step sees them staring into a huge gaping chasm (first step - make product, second step, make sales page, 3rd step - contact affiliates).

Thus, I was truly motivated to help... until... said individual implied I was helping for nefarious reasons.  Brought my age into the convo (not appropriate!), my health into the convo (SO not appropriate), and I decided yep - this person needed some lessons from life *first* before even approaching seasoned marketers.

But that's not why yesterday flung my world sideways into a realm of massive soul-searing pain and agony. 

Suffice it to say.... I discovered that my spouse of 28+ years and I had a colossal misunderstanding during the past 9,
yes 9, years....

One that caused a life direction that should *never* (and I mean *NEVER*) happen.

'Twas kinda like being in a forest and finding an entire table setting, okay a fork, in the road, and instead of choosing the path that would shower joy and happiness, we chose the path that brought *so* much un-necessary anguish and pain.   😞

'course, said path wasn't labeled (I mean, why make life easy?).   But in hindsight, it caused such a vast course correction that healing from the resulting heartbreak... well, it's going to take some time (for both of us, us being me and my husband of course).

Ever deal with something like that?

It flattened me yesterday night and this morning and afternoon... but I've finally processed it all this evening and, well, here I am!  :)

And life, as always, will go on.  

But you know, it's funny.  You'd think that after more than 1/4 a century, such revelations would already have happened.

25+ *years*.

'Tis incomprehensible, you know?   

* * *

Ah well.  Lots of things happen happen over a year.   Over 10 years.  Over a lifetime!   And my gosh, that time during your career?    If you're as prolific as Dennis and I are, you end up creating bunches and bunches of fantastically useful content.  

Heck, did you know that Dennis has written 50+ ebooks?

What about you?  Have you given yourself permission to start showing *your* greatness via your content creation?

No?  Why not?

Guaranteed, there are people out there who crave the knowledge only *you* can create in *your* style.

Why not tell yourself... indeed, today is the day I begin creating and/or enhancing my destiny?

Your future customers will thank you for it.


Enjoy!

Have a strongly spectacular day,

Dennis Becker and Barb Ling

ps - Speaking about those 50+ ebooks by Dennis... his birdieDay sale for them ends *tonight*!  The savings are ridiculous (in a good way, of course), and guaranteed, not only will you receive massive amounts of evergreen how-tos, you'll also get inspired to see what you yourself can create.

Click HERE to see!
http://askbling.com/dabdb2022


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